It took me a long time to realize that I'm basically a
libertarian – not a wacko, off the deep-end, overthrow the
palace guard, Lyndon LaRouche libertarian – but a
"self-ownership" libertarian. My life is my own
responsibility. I do not require anyone else to do the work to
discover and fulfill my destiny. The details of the remainder
of my world view are derivative.
As a part of that, I believe that each of us must
accept complete responsibility for creating our own life as
well as total accountability for the results of our decisions
and actions. No blame … no whining … no excuses! That doesn't
dismiss the difficult circumstances that engulf some people.
It simply means that requiring the world to be different than
it is in order for us to be successful is an unproductive way
to live. You grew up poor and you want to be rich; you have to
do it. Your business failed; you did it. Obstacles; overcome
them. If it's too hard for you, your outcome is your choice.
Don't blame the world; it’s perfect the way it is. How do I
know? Because that's the way it is. Anything else is an
opinion, not a fact! As business philosopher Jim Rohn is fond
of saying, "You can't change the seasons, but you can change
yourself.”
Many of my friends and associates will bob their heads as I
drone on about this issue and say "I agree" and then add
"except for the following." For me, there is no "except for
the following."
One of my favorite books is The Road Less Traveled
by the late M. Scott Peck, M.D., a man with an inquiring mind
and a scientific perspective. It begins:
"Life is difficult. This is a great truth, one of the
greatest truths. It is a great truth because once we truly see
this truth, we transcend it. Once we truly know that life is
difficult – once we truly understand and accept it – then life
is no longer difficult. Because once it is accepted, the fact
that life is difficult no longer matters."
You might read that and react with a yawn, an "of course"
or a "duh," because, as an abstraction, the truth of that
paragraph is intuitively obvious. Peck goes on to say (with
more eloquence and less bluntly than I would) that the degree
to which you accept responsibility for the whole enchilada of
your life – the degree to which you accept that truth – is the
degree to which you'll have a successful life. To the degree
you don't, you'll struggle.
He then cites one personal quality – discipline – as
the secret to success. If you're now saying, "Well, I have
plenty of that,” you ought to read his book. Dr. Peck's
components of discipline include delaying gratification,
acceptance of responsibility, dedication to the truth, and
balancing.
All of these elements are supremely important in a
business, as well as a personal, context. To his four,
however, I would add one of my own: the ability and
inclination to do what needs to be done,
when it needs to be done, the way
it needs to be done, every time. If you
always achieve the results you plan, you probably have
discipline. If you do most of the time, you probably
have some discipline. If you rarely do, well …
Here's today's Exhibit A, a poster child for discipline in
his field: Matt Stover, the field goal kicker with the
Baltimore Ravens of the National Football League.
Field goal kickers have the reputation of being quirky, a
bit "off-center." They rarely socialize with their teammates.
They're often alone and off to the side, talking to
themselves. Stover is unique in his "non-weirdness," but he's
also unique in his exceptional discipline. He keeps a series
of notebooks – 16 in total, one for each of his NFL seasons.
Each book contains his statistics and observations for one
year. He logs in every kick – not just when they count – in
each game. He also logs in every practice kick. He can
literally recount every step of every kick he's made and
missed. He is meticulous. He's also, on a percentage basis,
the most successful kicker in NFL history, and, oh yes, he's
becoming more accurate with age. And, he's 40. He attributes
his success not to physical prowess, but to his attention to
detail.
Remember: Practice doesn’t make perfect; perfect
practice makes perfect.